Tuesday, August 04, 2015

Famous People Who Admit to Nervousness and Stage Fright

Famous People Who Admit to Nervousness and Stage Fright

Show me a person who says, “I never feel nervous when I go to present,” and “I’ll show you an “automatic presenter.”

Some of the world’s most famous presenters freely admit to nervousness and stage fright—

Benedict Cumberbatch - He is so adorable, and his portrayal of Sherlock Holmes a marvel. And I loved him in The Imitation Game. He does, like Hugh Grant, often play bumbling and or odd characters so he can channel his nervousness into the part.


Adele - That booming voice, and she still gets scared.


Bob Dylan - That incredible creative man has stage fright. I get he has a bad voice, but he is a poet/lyricist of great magnificence.


Jason Alexander - He acts nervous all the time, how can he tell? By the way did you see him in the TV version of Bye Bye Birdie? Lots of fun.


Maya Angelou - She writes magnificently and has that amazing voice, but she also has stage fright.


Hugh Grant - There is a great interview on YouTube where he talks about it. Look up Graham Norton Show Hugh Grant Stage Fright. He talks about he even gets it working on animated films!


Annie Lenox - She says she gets over it by enjoying the moment. 


Brian Wilson - (The Beach Boys) Receives shoulder and neck rubs and prays before his concerts.


Sir Lawrence Olivier - Yes, one of the greatest actors of all time had stage fright.


Barbara Streisand - (singer and actress) I have seen her perform live. She had not done a live performance in years. She is wonderful, and you can see that she is a bit shy but she uses humor to overcome her fear.


Nicole Kidman (actress) - I was surprised. In her roles she always comes across as a bit plastic. I don’t see the vulnerability other people seem to see.


Michael Douglas - (actor) Yes, surprising.


Alfred Hitchcock - (director) I took a film class on him and read several biographies. As a child his mother was ill, and made him come home from school every day and stand at the end of her bed and report on his day. That would strike fear into anyone’s heart.


Winston Churchill - He dealt with it by drinking!


John Cougar Mellancamp (musician, actor)

William Shatner - He just keeps taking risks, and darn I admire that. If you can find the TV show where he and his wife remodel their home, you will be charmed with his boundless enthusiasm. I think that helps him as well. 

Wednesday, May 13, 2015

The Challenges and Advantages of Starting a Business at a Young Age

I started my business at 22 with $25 dollars and a really nice briefcase.
I have been very blessed in this business. Recently a media source asked me to share my challenges and advantages of starting a business so young. 

Here is my rough list.

1.       Disadvantage starting the business having no money for any marketing, not even the budget for business cards.

2.       Disadvantage not knowing so many things that would have made running the business easier and built it more quickly.
Just one simple thing, like getting the business cards from all my audience members before they left the speech or always asking for a reference letter from my clients would have been helpful.
(Advantage of not having cards and not knowing the “right way” to sell led to me calling everyone I had spoken for that week and asking what they liked about the program and what I could do better and if they needed other work done and if they knew anyone else that needed a speaker. I would even ask them to call their contacts for me and recommend me, which unbelievably they did!

3.       Disadvantage -I wish I had known to form a board for the company and or a group of trusted advisors with experienced business people to act as a sounding board and source of advice, and also to keep from being so isolated and ideally to work with collaboratively helping each other. I would tell anyone starting a business to do this and to ideally join a VISTAGE group.

4.       The biggest advantage was my naivete. I didn't know what you were supposed to do, what you could or couldn't do or what was and was not possible. As a professional speaker I ran out into the audience, stood on chairs, did crazy things and asked the audience to do fun things. I found out years later professional speakers didn't do such crazy things, but those crazy things made me unique. I still do impossible things every time I speak and doing that I believe, made my business. 

5.       The other advantage of starting young is that I didn't know to think in terms of billable hours. I didn't know that I should not put in more work than I was being paid for to do. Ultimately I undercharged and I put in far more work than I was paid for. Again, that was also an advantage because I consistently have gone above and beyond, the work was always at the highest standard which I think helped me get repeat clients and longevity in the very difficult speaking business. (Less than 5% of speakers who work full time speaking as their sole means of income survive more than 2 years in the business.)  I still have that work ethic and that desire to be the very best and work far more than I am paid for.  
Take Care,
Patti Wood MA, CSP
Body Language Expert
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